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Asking someone on a date in English (beginner)

Beginner English for asking someone on a date. Key line: “I'd like to take you to dinner.”

Full script

Lin
Hey, are you free Friday night?
Them
I am. Why do you ask?
Lin
I'd like to take you to dinner.
Them
Oh, like a date?
Lin
Yes. And no cat stories.
Them
Okay. I can do that.
Lin
So, Friday at seven?
Them
Yes. But I still want cat stories.

Key phrases

The lines worth keeping. Read them once before you go out.

free?
✓ Are you free Friday night?

Ask if they’re available

Ask about time first

dinner invite
✓ I'd like to take you to dinner.

Polite dinner invite

softer than saying "date"

a date
✓ Like a date?

Checking your meaning

They’re checking your meaning

set a time
✓ So, Friday at seven?

Suggest the time

Use So to move it forward

Quick answers

free: what to say in English

Say “Are you free Friday night?” — ask if they’re available. Ask about time first.

dinner invite: what to say in English

Say “I'd like to take you to dinner.” — polite dinner invite. softer than saying "date".

a date: what to say in English

Say “Like a date?” — checking your meaning. They’re checking your meaning.

set a time: what to say in English

Say “So, Friday at seven?” — suggest the time. Use So to move it forward.

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