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What does “excuse me” mean?

"Excuse me" is a polite way to get someone's attention, interrupt for a moment, move past someone, or politely point out a problem. People use it a lot in restaurants, shops, on the street, and on buses or trains.

When people say it

  • To start a question to a stranger or worker: "Excuse me, where's the restroom?"
  • To call a server and ask for something: "Excuse me, could we get the check, please?"
  • To get past someone or tell them you need to get off: "Excuse me, this is my stop."
  • To point out a problem politely: "Excuse me, I think this isn't what I ordered."

Tone: Polite and neutral; in a complaint, it can sound a little firm if you say it sharply.

Careful: Do not think it only means apologizing after you did something wrong. Use "Excuse me" to get attention or pass by; use "I'm sorry" for a real apology.

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Other ways to say it

Sorry

Very common in British English for getting attention or moving past someone; a little softer.

Pardon me

A bit more formal; natural in American English too, but less common in everyday speech.

Sorry to bother you

Extra polite when you are about to ask for help or interrupt someone.

Quick answers

Is "Excuse me" polite or rude?

It is usually polite. It only sounds rude if your voice is sharp or angry, especially in a complaint.

What is the difference between "Excuse me" and "I'm sorry"?

"Excuse me" is often for getting attention, interrupting, or passing by. "I'm sorry" is for apologizing for a mistake, trouble, or bad news.

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